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Originally Posted by BLowry This is my second marriage, November will make 7 yrs. I am 49 yrs old and my (now) husband and I have no children together...My husband has never been married before, is an only child and didn't have a very good upbringing(alot of anger). It's strange that you posted this as we have been having issues as well however, our issues are because my husband doesn't feel that he should have gotten married, because he wants for "himself" and doesn't really care about anyone else...It's all about him. I love my husband very very much and my heart is breaking right now..I believe my husband is bi-polar..I have finally convinced him to go for therapy...He says he loves me but wishes he never got married...there is so much more to my story but, I have gotten way off track with you question...I am sorry...guess I needed to vent for a minute....I find (as you had said) alot of people just don't want to work on their marriage,...it's easier to just get divorced...I found from my previous marriage the most important thing (to me) is communication....this door should never be closed....
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oh no !! I'm so sorry - does your husband know how lonely he may be if he wasn't married ? Is he going to go for therapy ? What about maybe YOU taking some time for yourself ...like a trip or something and see how he copes on his own ? You're almost in a no win situation if he's THAT single minded...but has he heard the phrase "The Grass is always Greener" ?
I'm sorry to hear that girl - that has to be so hard on you.
