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					Originally Posted by RLC12345678  Our parents and grandparents told us that we should wake up every single day and the first thing we should say to ourselves is, "What can I do today to make this marriage better?" Not what can MY SPOUSE do to make this better, but what can I do.
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  That is so true!!

 I think part of the reason so many marriages end in divorce is because people fail to see their own faults. They blame their partners for the marriage's problems but refuse to acknowledge their own shortcomings and what they can do to make things better.