I'm not sure it's our job to tell other people how to care for their pets -- unless, of course, there is clear-cut abuse taking place.
First of all - he is taking his dog for walks (a good thing) - second -he is seeing that it is safe everytime a car goes by (another good thing) - and, it seems to be working for them.
As far as picking it up that way, some dogs don't like it and other dogs don't mind it at all. If I were watching the man and his dog, I could quickly tell whether or not the little dog hates or doesn't mind being picked up this way. I would suspect that his dog is used to it and doesn't mind it at all.
I know we all have our own personal strong opinions about how everyone else should care for their dogs -- but I think some situations are best left alone.
You could stop and visit with the man - and tell him that you are amazed that his little dog doesn't mind being lifted that way -- (mine wouldn't like it - mainly because he's not used to it). After a short, friendly conversation you may find yourself more accepting of the way he cares for his dog - also, this may give you an opportunity to express your concerns in a very friendly, conversational, nonjudgemental way. And - in the end -- this is the only way, we will ever be able to change anyone else's behavior anyway.....
Good luck! Carol Jean |