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Originally Posted by myriamha I have a bachelor studio apartment and he has free run he starts crying when i close the door of the apartment .
may be what would hepl is that set limits for example at night i wont allow him to sleep in my bed anymore instead i will put him in his bed in the kitchen and send him the message that now it;s rest time i will establish this routine same in the morning put him in his bed without gating him in the kitchen sothat he understands that now it;s rest time . do you think this will work ? |
If he has been sleeping in bed with you, it would be cruel to not let him sleep in bed with you anymore...especially if you are at work all day. At night is his time to bond with you and be close to you. I would continue to let him sleep in bed with you.
I would leave freshly worn t-shirts down for him to lay on while you are gone so he can smell you throughout the day. Do not make a big deal about leaving in the mornings. Just act like things are normal and don't even say bye to him before you leave....just leave.
He will eventually get used to it. How old is he?