How badly does your hubby want to pick her middle name? He just sounds like the greatest guy in the whole world. I think that if he REALLY wants to pick Cali's middle name, then you should compromise and let him pick it. Anyway, it is not like you are ever going to call her middle name anyway, right?
But if he really doesn't care what Cali's middle name is and is just trying to make things difficult, then you should get to pick it.
I dunno....I might be the wrong person to ask
