I am so very sorry for your loss. Tears are streaming down my face. I cannot imagine your pain and sorrow. Allow time to grieve and heal.... Please please know that you have a huge family here that knows the pain of losing a Yorkie baby. We are here for you.....
About the comment the breeder made.....it is possible that she, too, is hurting and something stupid just slipped out of her mouth. Shock and grief makes us say things sometimes that we wouldn't ordinarly say.