First of all, he needs to come up there, be with his family, and try to relax and enjoy the visit. When he returns to Florida, he needs to find an attorney, one who specializes in divorces AND that maybe comes recommended. Not sure of the laws in Florida (is it a community property state or not?) but there are laws in place in each state that sets a pre-determined amount for child support (which is subject to change based on the income). As for alimony, there again, there should be a set scale used to determine percentage awarded (if any!). I would not like to think that Florida, or any state for that matter, would award so much money that it makes the individual unable to survive!!! It should be set up to where he WILL have money to live on himself. Oh, and he also needs to make sure HIS papers state that he is no longer responsible for any of her debts. That way, if she racks up more credit card debt, he's not held liable for the payments. I know he's upset right now, as you all are, but hang in there Gina! Be there for your brother, just as you have been. He will be okay - I can't help but think otherwise! Will have you all in my thoughts and prayers
Suzi