I think I can help here!! I had all those same problems and finally after missing a day here, day there from work because one eye or the other would be so swollen I didn't want to be seen, I finally went to an opthamologist. She gave me a prescription for Patanol eye drops. They are for eye allergies. One drop in each eye twice a day. After a while, I didn't need them every day or maybe just once a day. I think they may be pretty expensive if you don't have a good prescription plan but check it out! It's been a lifesaver for me!!
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