Just give it time, I promise it will get better. I don't think she is being stubborn. Does she have a crate? Put her in it for a few minutes, then take her out and try doing some tricks. If she refuses, then put her back in the crate for a while and try again. Just be calm and make it no big deal. Basically, don't give her any attention unless she is working on what you want. And keep the sessions short so she doesn't get bored.
Also, try using "life rewards" Ask her to sit before pouring water or setting down her food. If she starts to get up, lift the bowl. Don't set it down unless her butt is on the ground. Or hand feed her each piece while asking her to sit. When you go for a walk, ask her to sit while you put her leash on, sit while you open the door, etc. Ask her to sit before you give her a toy. Only pet her if she sits. Don't do anything unless she sits!
As far as treats, they should be used as a reward, not a bribe. It's not like "Oh look what I have but you have to sit first" If she will work for praise, that's fine. My little guy doesn't always like to be petted - food is a big motivator for him so we use treats a lot. But I ask for the behavior, THEN we go and get the treat. Other times we use life rewards, like I have him sit beside me when I stop at intersections, etc. on our walk. When he sits, the walk continues. This doesn't require food - the walk is a reward. But if all I did was pet him he'd be like, yeah OK whatever lady. You have to do what works for your dog. Would you work as hard if you never got paid?
If you are still trying to find a good treat, try Zukes Mini Naturals, or simply try chicken or cheese :-) |