I know kind of what you are going through. My older brother was SOOOO SOOO LAZY he didnt work for 4 yrs after he got out of HS.
Bummed off my parents and all my mom did is yell and fuss at him but didnt stick to what she said. And bc of it, she was harder on me. And every time I out did my brother in something or finish something my brother just quit, my dad would rub it in his face. Which was not a good thing to do, but my dad dose not think before he speaks.
You should feel relaxed in your home. I would set rules and if he dose not like it. Then there is the door. Youngest or not. He should clean up after him self and have respect you and not bring friend over late at night when y'all are trying to sleep. I know you are in a VERY VERY HARD situation and you want everybody to be happy, but sometimes you have to put yourself first. |