What an A@@!!! Is it safe to say that when he did it, he was drunk at the time? Whether it be a 3 year relationship or 6 mths, he owed you the courtesy of discussing your breakup one-on-one, in privacy - NOT in a crowded place in front of his friends. Doing so to me says that he was trying to avoid having the BIG TALK with you and just wanted to do it quick and dirty, with his friends around to back him up - and surrounded by people to avoid a 'scene'. I've been through the ringer with guys - I know how it feels to have your heart broken and not know why. I'm so sorry for you and your furbaby, but like someone else suggested, do something for YOU today and try to forget about him. 3 years is a long time... and I know it's easier said than done, but now you can start thinking about YOU and do things you couldn't do before. Life is too short to waste on someone who doesn't respect you - which he clearly does not.
Good luck, I hope everything works out in your favor - and I would just pack his stuff up and leave it on the lawn for him to pick up - you certainly don't owe him any favors. |