Oh wow, I am so very sorry. sending a big
. I cannot believe that anyone would be so hard hearted and hurtful. Was he drunk? Maybe he had a few too many and got stupid.
Now for my humble opinion: Oh man! What a jerk! I know that you are hurting terribly, and hurt, and angry, and embarassed. But you are so much better off without someone who can't get his priorities straight.
Part of Zoey's reactions are a mirror of yours. Once you settle down and "recover" she will get back to normal. You and Zoey deserve so much better! I'm with you.... I'd give the dude 24 hours to remove all of his stuff or it would be in the dumpster.