Not rude maybe? Maybe you are getting your feelings hurt a little easier then most. This is basically an advice/message board where individuals ask for advice and what we think about something. Sometimes when they ask, the readers/listeners would never do what they are being asked for validation of, so someone offers a differing point of view, that is not being mean, simply having a different viewpoint or opinion. Often times, we might not think about things from a different point of view and this gives the asker/poster the opportunity to look at something from all views. I don't find anyone here being mean, I ask for advice, take what I can use and toss the rest, I would not ask if I did not want an honest answer/opinion. JMHO |