My hubby and I are both still really young (22 and 25), but once we get settled in a house of our own in about 2 years, we've already agreed that the first thing we are going to invest in is a maid that will comes once a week. Both of us grew up with a maid that came once a week, so I am glad that there was nothing to argue about in that department. Both of us work, and on the weekends, the LAST thing we want to do is clean the house!
Do yourself a favor, GET A MAID!!! You will be SOOOO much happier! And....a Happy Wife = A Good Life