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Originally Posted by Miss_Sara This is just a ranting post.
I've tried SO hard to figure out what I should do with my life
so I FINALLY think I've figured it out
and my cousin says "I DEFINITLY want to do this with you"
and we of course make plans for the future and I tell her "are you serious about this"
and she of course says that she's very serious and really wants us to go this direction.
So then how can she just back out
I mean what is her problem
She NEVER cares about this side of the family
she forgets how much we did for her
and how much I constantly do
I mean when was the last time her and her siblings even got me a birthday present?
FAMILY is so much more important then friends
I mean my family is SO messed up
but I still know they should come first
I've given up sooo many friend things that were important just because they were visiting.
I reschedule everything so I can make sure they have a nice time.
This isn't fair to me at all.
I do so much for everyone.
now I have no idea what to do with my life yet again |
I have the same problem with my SIL! I don't talk to her much anymore. We used to be BF during High School but then she turned evil. And the B-day thing gets me too. She and my brother traveled an hour away to attend her friends kid's b-day but never even called their own nephew, my son, on his.
Plus they are always borrowing money from my mom that they never pay back and they never even came to see her on mothers day.
Sorry, I didn't mean to take over your thread I just wanted to let you know you're NOT ALONE.
My advice is to stay away from the people and things that upset you. But sometimes it can still bother you, but it can only get better when you replace the bad with good. Good luck sweetie. You can alway e-mail me if you need to rant and rave about something. I'm here.