I wanted to add to my comment but my time alloted to do so expired, is there an elderly couple that is home all the time near you that would be willing to help out till your baby is old enough to be left alone and maybe things will change and you will have more time. If we was close by I would be more than happy to do that for you, we are home all the time and it would be so spoiled, you would still love it though it would be good spoiling
I sincerely wish the best for you all. Patti, Jack and Baby Blessing
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