We are ok now. We had another big argument after he came home last night, all because he ddin't want to admit that I was right, not that I wanted to be right it was because I was right, when they don't help you in the house that is not only yours but is both of us house and you are the only one putting effort to keep it clean and nice and after you ahve work so hard on it he comes home and messes it up in a blink of an eye, you really feel like you aren't being appreciate it. That's how everything started. But we are ok now.