Thanks guys i just needed some other view and opinions. I have talked to him about bills and such... he just doesn't think the kids spend that much a month. For medical bills he thinks he shouldn't have to pay because he provides the insurance. Technically he is to pay 54% of what is not covered per the divorce papers. However his position is that that means if the kids break a leg or something. For the past 2 years I've asked him to help with school clothes and he hasn't. He talks to the girls and they tell him they don't need anything, because of past conversations that he has no money because I have it. For prom I asked him to help and he gave us $50. Better then nothing but still not even close to a third of what was spent.
Anyway, now I sound like I'm whinning.... sorry. |