I had my daughter when I was 19. (She's now almost 9). Her father and I set up child support when she was two (he was going to be moving 2300 miles away) and I've received the same amt for the last 7 years. I've considered having it re-adjusted but like you, I don't want to "screw" him. I'm not sure why I don't want to screw him (being that he's had no contact w/his daughter for over 7 years!!!
) but I just don't feel right doing it.
I only get $175.00 every two weeks. I could use more but like I said, I just don't feel right asking for more, or hassling him. I'm also afraid if he thinks I'm being greedy, he'll quit his job and go elsewhere, and then I'll be w/out until they find him.