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Originally Posted by Passionfruition When my husband and I got engaged, we argued more than ever. I think it's something about the stress of being not married but more than dating that really gets to you and scares you about your future. We even broke our engagement off once for 2 months! ....because the arguing got so bad......it was scary, you know, arguing so much before marriage. Now, I can't say my marriage (2.5 years) has been the smoothest road but we did it and don't regret it. |
Oh my gosh...my husband and I fought more for the 6 months we were engaged than we EVER did the whole 2.5 years we dated. It was AWEFUL! We did often say to each other that we probably shouldn't get married bc we just fight WAY too much. We did "call off" the engagement a couple of times (although we never "officially" called it off), but after we both cooled down then we reconciled. Also, we did not live together before we got married. But, we DID go through pre-marital counseling. Boy, did that help 100%. Our counselor, who was the preacher that married us, gave us this book that taught us how to "fight" the "right" way. We hardly ever fight anymore, but if we DO fight, we do it the "right" way.
Give him a chance to cool off. Don't call him. Give him a chance to call you. If it ultimately does not work out, then I promise you that it will be a blessing in disguise. Keep your chin up! Find a job or a hobby or something that will keep you occupied and keep your mind off of this whole situation.