I'm just a year older than you, but I have been married almost 4years. My husband & I didn't live together before marriage & once we started living together it was rough. We couldn't agree on anything & fought about everything. I was constantly pouting about something. So I talked to some married people & found out it was normal. I had always thought that if you married the one everything would be perfect...no fights just love love love. It's not like that marriage & love for that matter is a choice. It's something that takes work & patience. He may just need some time & he may be feeling over whelmed. Getting married is a huge decision especially if you were raised that divorse is not an option period. He may just be scared & think that the little bickering is a sign of something bigger. Give him some space & see what happens.
As far as a job, my father's company just bought a plant in El Paso, we make wire, that might be a place to try & get a job. PM me if you want the contact information.
__________________  Ponyup Mom to LOGAN  |