I stuck it out with Sophie and just waited for it to grow. I know that some people trim around the eyes. It is a matter of preference I guess. I think that Villette trims around her girls eyes. I even think she posted a close up pick of one of them so you can see clearly. I will try and find it.
Here is a pic of when Sophie's hair was in the same stage as Gingers. I just tried to put up as much as I could in a band. BTW Ginger is too cute.