Welcome to YorkieTalk, Pat!! My little girl is Toto, 16 months, 4 lbs.! She is spoiled rotten. The only success with her bows has been little rubber bands similar to those used on braces but the groomer says they have a substance on them to keep them from slipping. Also, I have to take Toto's down every single day when I brush her or the topknot gets so matted it takes a long time to get all the tangles out! Again, welcome, hope you like it here!! Tell us all about your little one!