I am also the product of divorced parents, my brothers and I ages 15, 12 and 8, were all very shocked but now we see how much better it was when my parents were not together Luckily we all three learned from the abusive situation and saw that our parents were much happier apart - the even became FRIENDS, they just could not live together.... kids are stronger than you think. it brought us closer and made us stronger people knowing that our parents made the decision that ended up being best for us.
good luck to you and God bless you in your decision....
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