HMMM.. I don't think it was so bad she had to take a minute to compose herself. I know if even MY OWN child broke something of my oWN I treasured I would have to take a minute and compose myself o keep from screaming.
I also think that if you are mad she took she money ... you shouldn't have offered it. It seems by saying you are upset she took it it means you weren't sincere in offering it to her