[Tashasmom]

Denise,
I am so sorry. I know how much you cared for him..
I wish those on here could of practiced the same refrain as my mom does. When I am upset at Jay I say things about him to her I don't mean..she takes it for what it is..I"m just upset..she doesn't jump on the bandwagon and criticize him with me..she knows he's a good man..
My husband works so hard to pay for the things we have and it isn't fair to him that I allow any of my pets to ruin those things. I am the one that wants them not him..so I know i'm taking a chance. If he were ever serious about my animals then I know i'd have to do something that worked for us both. Which is what I feel you have done. You may not be allowed to keep parker but you do get to keep maddie..so when your feeling sad about parker being gone..just scoop up little maddie and give her lots and lots of kisses..
I don't think your a bad pet owner or a bad anything..I've seen your posts and it shows you care about your pets.
I'm here if you need me. Christy