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I wash Mia once a week, and I can't wash her head because I am afraid water is going to get inside her ears. I have tried to put cotton in her ears but they fall out every time. She is also very afraid of the hairdryer. She tries to claw her way out of my hands, which makes the experience very unpleasant for both of us.
Also, what are some brushes I can use? I have read that I am not supposed to brush her with brushes that have plastic ball tips, but what about metal ones that have round metal tips?
She also moves her head a lot when I am trying to comb the hair on her head, which scares the hell out of me because I am afraid I am going to poke her eye out, or hurt her somehow.
Any advice will be appreciated.
Thanks.