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Originally Posted by michiko This thread has been interesting. Some comments I agree and some are so hard for me to read.
I think many stereotype people so quickly. I wouldn't think that original poster was taking advantage from the system right after I read her first post. I mean I could say the exact same thing, and do you know what I am going through? That's right, you don't!! So then how can you say who is taking advantage of the system. The girl in Manchester (sorry I am lazy to look it up the name ..  ) shared very personal experiences. It is really great that people can speak out of her own experiences. However not everyone can do that. I might say the same, but I might be going through really tough situations that I might not say, and I just say it like "I just wanted to take my dog with me to everywhere..." So don't assume if you don't know the person well enough. It really irritates me!!!
I always have considered to have my dog as a service dog, but I don't think I will do that. Only reason is because I don't like to be labeled or being called disable. Then.. what does disability really mean? How can people comare whose situation worse than others? WE all have struggles... and why do we have to have names of disorders to get service dogs. Who can tell you that you don't deserve the service dog? If you don't go to counseling, work full time, and live okay everyday then.. the person doesn't deserve one? even she might have anxiety attacks but have egos not to be labeled?
Sorry.. I am just mumbling.. maybe I am not making sense.. but this is emotional topic as I work with battered women and families that go through struggles in daily lives. |
No, you are making sense. I know what you mean. We don't know what anyone else has been through. I think the original person was trying to be nice and share info, and sometimes people get jumped on.
