[Kizzys Mom]

I just put Kizzy in my lap and tell her to be still and i give her a few cheerios but mostly one at the start and a few afterwards. But i've also offered to get the fly swatter. lol. She is scared to death of it. She has seen me swat flies on the deck with it and look at her and say see what the fly swatter does. I can tell her to spit stuff out (like a paper towel, kleenex if I drop one, she tries to grab it and run). I just say, i'll get the fly swatter and she will run from me but while running she spits it out and keeps going. all i have to do is just tell her that, I dont even have to pick it up most of the time. so sometimes while doing her bow if she dont be still I'll just say" Imma get my fly swatter. no more moving her head much at all. then afterwards I say look at me and she will look me right in the face so I can see if I got it straight. it better be pretty straight cause once I put her on the floor she's not gonna give me a chance to get her back in my lap for a while. But she acts like she really thinks she is actually pretty afterwards. I'll tell her aww you look so pretty and go on about it and say go get a toy and play. she wont even run after her toys for a while. she'll just sit on the rug and look at me like, i'm too pretty to do that. But she does know what get a toy means because I tell her that all the time when she is on my heels so much and she will go get one of her toys and start playing with it. but not when she first gets her bow in.