but becareful for too much coddling although it is soo hard because you want him to love you, but it might just make him feel more unsafe and insecure. He might think that there is something out there to be afraid of if he sees you acting totally different and worried ever since the accident....He needs to see you as the alpha strong leader, that things are back to normal and ok. Just my opinion, I hope it helps..time will make things better. good luck