You are in a tough situation because your husband needs to support you here. He also should know that deep down kids are NOT happy when they don't have rules and boundaries, it makes them scared. The reason she keeps pushing your buttons is she wants you to establish boundries. Be very clear about where you draw the line and what will happen if she goes over it. Also, try to catch her being good and reward her for that. And I don't mean with things, just say things that are positive. You are in a tough situation, I hope that it works out for you. |