I agree with Gina, she knows how to push your buttons. Ignore her as best you can. Once she see's it doesn't get a rise out of you the thrill will be gone. I also think you need to sit down with her dad and set up acceptable behaviour and punishmnets f or not complying, ie privileges taken away. It is a difficult postion being a stepmom. I to was raised in all Catholic schools by nuns and boy we were taught respect. I have taught that to my dtr as well. I told her you can't control how smart you are but you sure can control how you behave. good luck |