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					Originally Posted by chattiesmom   You must also think of your future, opportunities like this don't fall in your lap every day.  I understand how much it hurts to leave one behind.  You might even be able to fine someone here on YT who would baby sit for your Anabelle.  I can only speak for myself, but I would be more than happy to baby sit...  She might like an extended farm vacation.   
If you chose to go, it would not be necessary to "give her away"...... just fine a loving soul to take care of her and spoil her while Mommy is working   |  
 
  Thank you so much!  You are so generous!  
I am seriously considering not going, but my husband won't go if I don't go, he doesn't want to be away from me.  The jobs that we are going to do are contract (I am getting out of the Army Reserves in Sep).  But, I am thinking that money should not be a reason to risk our lives.  Money can be made doing other, less risky things.   
I am going to look into similar jobs in South America.  They pay almost the same, but are not as dangerous.  We just need a little financial pick-me up, and the first thing we thought of was Iraq.