She is definitely a cruel nasty woman. I do think that her animosity towards you is that you are his future and she is insecure as to what part she will play in his life. Sad because no matter what she will always be his mother and if she at least tried to be civil to you it would benefit her son.
My mom and grandmother never got along. My grandmother did her damndest to try and split them up. It got to a point where my mom would drop us and dad off to her house and then only come back to pick us up when we were ready to leave. My grandmother never thought that she was good enough for dad either.
I think you need to stick to your guns and not kiss her @ss no matter what. The stress and aggravation will be way too much for you.
By the way I am very sorry for you loss of the baby.
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