I LOVE the new look! And I agree 100% with everyone else....what an absolute great cause and reason behind the cut. Your unselfish act will now bring joy into the life of some lucky girl or boy. Don't doubt your decision and don't let anyone else cause you to doubt it either.
As for your hubby, I don't know what to say except I've been there before, but not as bad as what he's putting you through. My hubby didn't like my hair the first time (several years ago) I cut it short (or at least short for me). He whined and whined about how he liked the longer hair, wished I hadn't cut it, on and on and on!!! I finally told him that I liked it, it was easier on me, and besides, last time I checked, HE wasn't the one dealing with my hair each day - shampooing, drying, brushing, etc. I told him if he liked long hair, grow his out or get a wig to wear - then he'd see! Now he just rolls with the flow when I get a "wild hair" and cut my hair in a different style. Friends will ask what he thinks and his response now is, "It's her hair, if she likes it, I like it and besides, as she tells me, I'm not the one dealing with it." Best of luck to you with hubby - I'm sure he'll calm down and come to see how truly beautiful your new cut is
Suzi