Shower Zoie with love, don't be mad at her because your nervs are on edge and yell at her for the slightest thing, she feels the tentions. Hold her close and talk to her, assure her that YOU love her.
Hope things turn out ok, it's a bummer to be in that situation, because you love your Dad and want to please him, at the same time you love your baby and want the best for her. Take her for walks if possible, that might make her tired so she will be quiet in the house
Good luck