As this thread moves... I hope Gina is having some fun fun making up!
Relationships are hard. My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for over 6. We get along sooooo well now and seriously act like newlyweds when we are together! BUT.... the first 3 years was hell for us. We fought ALL the time, we said NASTY things to each other..... we tried to get under each other's skin so much. But after 3 years.... I said... what the heck am I doing??????? Do I wanna be with him or not??? This is my choice and do I wanna live like this? NO... I wanna be happy. SO ...... I stopped trying to prove my point and I started living and I changed a lot...... GUESS WHAT? He changed too........ AND now? We don't know what the heck we even fought about before...... it was so stupid. So unimportant if you look at the biiger picture. I adore him now and guess what? He adores me too. Still opens my door and asks me out on dates and buys me flowers. ANd I don't even ask him. But I do sweet things for him too... you see... that is how they pick things up...... how you are with them.
Gina, good luck.... I hope things work out for you! |