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Originally Posted by jesscruz okay let me clarify this. there was nothing for you to be "defensive" about i'm kinda confused. iv'e been on this site for quite sometime and by allmeans i am concerned with everyones yorkie as they are with mine when i have concerns. i welcome newbies! it's just that when you make such remarks to someone who did not mean anything by thier comment of course thier going to get upset. especially with what you said. so how you want to take that i don't know. i love yorkie talk and yes there are alot of kind people here and i feel i'm one of them. i do not intentionally offend anyone here at all. we all love our babies very much. |
Don't be confused,
I feel you are inappropriate. Did you read your quote asking a similar question about a month ago.Your quote asked about the anticipated weight of your yorkie.
Did anyone respond to you with such arrogance?. As a new member my initial posting was filled with anxiety anticipating responses that were helpful, telling me about a hi end vet, sounded insulting, particularly because i surf the net and see many yorkies selling for ridiculous prices. The yorkie also has a prestigious background. Therefore, I interpreted your comment the way I did. If your intentions was not met with arrogance, as a senior talker you would not be responding to me in this way. You too are being defensive. It is your defenses that make you respond the way you do.
I'm sorry that I insulted you would have been appropriate.
Sometimes it does not matter what your intentions are it is how others perceive it. If someone is insulted by what you say, then you should accept that. Attacking me to make me understand your point, is again insulting.
In essence, I'm sorry that you can't accept that I am insulted by you, but I am. Continuosly sending me clarification emails won't change that. Your second response reiterated my feelings. If you don't like my comments, then don't respond, but challenging my feelings is ridiculous, because they are my feelings and I am entitled to them.
We do seemingly have one thing in common, we love yorkies, so please allow us to benefit from people we both are receptive to. Thank you.