It's odd to me because I enjoyed being single soooooooo much. It was fun to date and I definetly did'nt want a boyfriend. Women don't need to be in a relationship. I agree so much with the healing in between relationships part. So many women are relationship junkies and can't ever be alone. I spent the better part of 29 years alone and I am so glad that I did. Don't get me wrong I love my boyfriend. However, I don't need him, he just compliments my life.