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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae ijust need to really talk it out with him... |
Gina,
I know all about hot-headed Italians - I've been married to one for over 20 years now (although he has mellowed with age and is not near the hot-head he was in the beginning). And I can honestly say he has never said a mean or ugly thing to me - I told him in the beginning I would not stand for that. I'm not here to give advice or anything like that, I think the others have already done that (and great advice I might add). But you have just given yourself the ultimate advice - YOU need to talk it out with him. Now is the time for the two of you to sit down, talk about what bugs you, what bugs him, etc. Is there room for compromise and/or change in the relationship? Only the two of you know for sure. If, after talking things out, and there doesn't seem to be any compromise in sight, then why keep putting yourself through the mental anguish? I don't post a lot here but I do read almost daily and I've read enough of your posts to know that you are a beautiful person inside and out - don't let the past run your future for you. By that I mean, don't let the comments and belittlement (is that a word?) you've experienced in the past from the men in your life continue to haunt you and guide your future. Shed it like an old skin, and make your decisions for your future based on you and your needs in a relationship, how you'd like it to be, not how it's been.
Best of luck to you and many hugs and prayers headed your way.
Suzi