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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae said to me on the phone that this is an excuse for me
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Sounds like "insecurity talking" to me....
I agree with Teri.... I would not even be there when he comes home.... Why feed the fire?? It can only make things worse... If its an apology you want.... give him time to come up with one... if he cant bring himself to... Baby, your better off... But seriously... Dont be there and get all worked up and argue and discuss it in circles till neither of you know what the hell your even talking about anymore! I've been there! Talking something to death... or the other end of it... saying a bunch of shi@ that you don't mean cause your hurt! Spare yourself the drama!
Hit a friends house or go treat yourself to an amazing dinner with Lexi! Take her for a LONG walk!!! Whatever you do... don't be at home... If you got the point across that all you wanted was an apology and for him to not be so disrespectful to you, then he knows the next move.... If not leave a super short and simple! note for him on the coffee table.... No drama, no multi page let me get a glass of water, this is going to take some time to read letter! Just short and sweet!
so and so,
Sorry I can't be here tonight... I just dont want to argue anymore....
I care too much about us. This morning, I just wanted you to see how your
words and actions hurt me....
love,
me
He'll do one of two things..... Pack his shi*and leave.... (if he does, you are so much better off!!!!)
Or he'll pull his head out of his a** and realize what a d*ck he is being and start wracking his (sorry guys) under developed male brain trying to figure out how he is going to say he is sorry! And it had better be good!
I am not a fan of the "I'm packing my stuff" threat! Bullsh*t That is so chickensh*t!!!! Any Coward can pack a bag!!!! Don't ever say that to him... it'll really start some crap! but its true! If thats the kinda guy he is... let him go... but if this is a minor glitch... give him room and let him figure it out....
Don't be at home tonight! Let this be his call.... You aren't a begger! I look at your avatar everyday!!! You can have any guy with those looks girl! Don't settle for just any guy!
Best of luck!!! I'll be thinking of you tonight!