OK, here's my 2 cents worth. After working as a cruelty investigator, and running a rescue group for 18 years, I would definately prefer to see people spoil their dogs than the rotten things I've seen. BUT, in my house, the dogs eat from their bowl or go hungry (have never seen one starve himself because he wasn't fed the "right" way), do not beg, and listen to me (ok, mostly listen to me) when I give orders. Dogs are pack animals, and I am the top dog. I squish them with hugs, and coddle them, and spend time with them, but don't let them totally run my life. If it works for you, I am glad you are happy. I also respect the people coming into my house, because everyone doesn't have to like my dogs and cats. If they don't my animals would probably prefer to not be around this weird person anyway. I mean, c'mon. Who could not love a Yorkie??? The St. Bernard though, that I can understand a visitor being hesitant.
Alison |