Here are a couple of sites that talk about the grieving process. There are different levels of grief that we go through. I hope that these sites are helpful to you.
http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/m...reavement.html http://www.uiowa.edu/~ucs/griefloss.html
I had a miscarriage several years ago and afterwards I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me. Since the miscarriage was only personal to me I tried to "get over" it, but inside I felt that I was falling apart. I ended up one night staying in a Ronald McDonald house (my MIL was in the hospital) and I came across a pamphlet about grieving. It helped me to realize that what I was going through and how I was feeling was part of the process of loosing someone. I eventually found a good book on miscarriages and found out that what I was feeling was "normal". It wasn't easy sometimes and I had a few times that I really fell apart. It took me a year to go through my grieving process. I found it was hard to talk to anyone about what I was going through, but I can tell you that God is an extremely good listener. If you need someone to talk to please PM me. I'll be keeping you in my prayers.