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Originally Posted by Kathryn_V For what its worth... I married young.... The father of my two children.... It was the easy route... we were together for 7 years... I loved him... but was never really "in love" with him.... It was just easy... And there was absolutely no real fire... I fell out of it early on... I knew it was not forever after a couple of years.. but like I said, it was easy...
It was not until I met the love of my life that I woke up and took it off of auto pilot.... I divorced and was single for a bit... then started dating that man.... Best thing I ever did....
Was there any guarantee that it would work out that way??? Nope! But did I need to let go of something that was holding me back from enjoying my life??? YES!
You are at a hell of a crossroad here.. And it sucks! But your here for a reason! Maybe its to wake you up and get you to live a better or different life... or maybe its to get you to wake up and start living the life you have now??? Only you can answer that! But like I said... you are here for a reason! There are no guarantees in life... But there is one thing you can count on... At the end of the day... you have to like the person inside you... You have to like the life you have created for yourself.... You have to like the example you are setting for your children.... They will pattern their life and relationships after yours....
Are you happy?? If not... make the necessary changes.... and that may mean staying right where you are, or it might mean shaking it up a bit... Only you know what it will take!
Your babies will love you for taking the wheel! No more auto pilot! Set an example they can be proud of! |
shoot ... good post.... you know for what it's worth.. I too at times find myself in a should I leave him position... my hubby takes care of me financially and loves to spoil me BUT... he is not affectionate and has a horrible temper.... he speaks before thinking and says hurtful things at times and never says sorry.... He used to be physically abusive but has changed about that..... I too wonder if it is all worth it.. like people say if he did it once he will do it again.. but through all of it I still love him....the question is just how much..... good luck with your decusion...
