Yes we feel orphaned and you are so right it doesn't matter how old we are it stills hurt very bad. I will tell you another thing that helps me a lot, knowing that I have been loved so deeply by my Mom and that some people aren't that fortunate to have felt that. What a great feeling to know that you were loved so much by your parents. I use to tell my Dad that I wish I didn't even know that kind of love and he told me that when I got older I wouldn't feel that way. He was right, I am so glad that I was blessed to experience the love of my Mom! I don't know about the anti-depressants but I would check with your doctor about it. I know people that take them and it helps them get through the rough times. Again I am here if you need someone to talk too. |