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Originally Posted by Tiggerwit Ok, first off, I didn't read all the replies. I think that there is a reason for everything. If this person was the one that was meant to be then you would have waited for him. You wouldn't have taken the steps you did with your now husband. If the other person was to be the one then you guys would have made it clear and he would have done what it took to ensure that i.e. engaged or married you before he left.
I think old feelings are coming to surface of what could have been, but life doesn't work that way. What could have been is the past and you need to focus on the here and now. You are married, you have made a commitment to someone else and until you have exhausted every effort to that commitment then you need to let the other person go. You married your husband for a reason, find those reasons and make them stronger. Only you can make your life what it is. You have the ability to make or break your marriage, you make your own happiness. It's all in the choices we make.
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I'm sorry but thats not always true. I did not marry my first true love because of life and its fate and reasons ...... and married someone else. We only lasted for 2 years, 11 months married before I left him.
Several years later I met up with my first true love and we have been together ever since. Just because of choices someone made young does not mean their true love (now husband of 9 years) was not meant to be. I am a perfect example of that.
