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Originally Posted by ytsirk27 Have any of you have a "first Love" and over time you lost touch but have come into contact again and there still in your heart and they feel the same but if you were with somebody else should you stick it out with them especially with kids even though your heart is tearing for this other person! (NO judging please) PLEASE no personal pm's my husband reads them!  |
I have not read all the post yet, but my opinion is, you have to look at all the situations first.
1. are you happy being married to your husband? Does he treat you right? Is he a good father to your children? Do you have good communication?
Ask your self.... what if your husband is talking to his first love.... how would that make you feel if he is talking to someone else?
2. Is this man "your 1st love" married? is he happy in his marriage? does he have children?
You have to really sit down and do the math.
When you said no PM's, your husband reads them, it got me thinking, why does he read them? does he not trust you? or is he just nosey?
My husband does not read my emails, so this just bothers me.
Good luck with what ever your heart chooses!