I think you need to do what you feel is right for you and your children. No one can tell you what to do unless they have been through the same situation, which would be impossible... all people are different and no situations are the same. I think everyone here has done a great job of giving advice but it is up to you. I would like to talk on the phone with you sometime as I would love to help you get through this. I have free long distance. Pm me if you would like to talk, I'm here. |