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Originally Posted by ytsirk27 OK...I think we all need to chill out. Kristy..I am not or was not mad at your question. I was just stating that hes not abusive. everybody else. The ones of you that read my thread awhile back knows that this has been an on going issue (my marriage that is). This was brought up way before the ex came into play, and im not even saying hes "in Play". The thought has crossed my mind but right now my focus is my two beautiful daughters. I have talked to my ex. yes, but not for awhile but I saw him yesterday (did not speak). I should not have brought up this thread at all so I am sorry that i did. I look to you guys for opinions and help when im down and usually at the end I feel better but i feel all that has been done today is me opening a great debate that ppl are going to get hurt on so I apologize. |
Please don't feel bad that you brought this up, that is what this off topic discussion is for. I know sometimes we have the closest friends in the world that we just can't talk too, and that why it's easier to post it on here. So again please don't feel bad. I am in agreeance with Vanchick that people take marriage very lightly but I am by no means saying that you have. One thing I do think is that you should take time to think about things (not the ex but your marriage and life in general). I remember my SIL told me that the best thing that happened to her as a child was her parents getting divorced she said she always knew they weren't happy and were glad that they finally made the decision not to be together. Whatever you choose is your right and we are here to be supportive of you.