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Originally Posted by ytsirk27 I want to make something clear..."my ex" may still be just that a "ex". You guys that know my past thread understand swhat i mean with my marriage. I want to know though...If you had children is it worth it for you to be really unhappy just to keep your marriage together even if one parent is bitchy and crabby all the time because they feel trapped? I have Kept my family together for the last 2 years DESPITE MY feelins or well being. I love my kids to no end and would die for them but really...shouldnt everybody have a chance of some type of happiness..even if they are alone just the there kids...If some had read one omy my latest post you would see that the ex may not be in the picture at all..he may stay right where hes at. |
Honestly, what it all boils down to is what YOU want. We can just offer suggestions. Some of the suggestions on here seem to be based on religion, and that's okay too. I'm Catholic, but not really religious, but I believe that if you are unhappy and you've tried to make it work, that it's your choice to get out. Why be miserable for the rest of your life? There are so many children who are products of a divorce, and they survive.